5 Top family night ideas

Alliyah Dawud
October 25, 2017

5 top ways to spend time together as a family

Admit it. Sometimes the idea of organising a ‘family night’ can bring on more stress that a two mile traffic jam when you have five minutes to get your appointment.

I’m all for quality over quantity. I do cherish the idea of eating together but it’s not always possible (cue-the endless after School clubs, Quran classes, homework, housework, prep for work etc etc). So instead of telling you the only way to be a strong family is to eat together everyday I thought I would share my top 5 family night ideas.
If you have your own ideas do leave them in the comments section.

1) The classic-Movie Night

With the rise of on demand services Movie Nights just don’t have the same allure; unless you put some oomph into it. If you organise a Movie Night for the weekend you can encorporate the following activities into it:

Decorate your own pizzas
Pop some corn (or make other snacks)
Make your own cinema tickets or posters

If you are doing this on a weekend I would leave out the majority of creative activities (the only one I recommend is the pizza decorating as the majority of this prep work can be done in advance or even shop bought).

Make it extra special: pick a theme. And if everyone cannot agree on the movies to be watched then plan additional nights to accommodate everyone. This is FAMILY time after all.

Turn off phones & other technology that will distract attention.

Dim the lights, get out the cosy blankets, open the packets of snack and enjoy.

NOTE: I’m not recommending this every night of the week so snacks like chocolate are more than welcome as a treat (you’d buy a pack at the cinema wouldn’t you?).

1) Board Games Night

I love Monopoly. I’m competitive and love a good session of Buckaroo, Pop up Pirate, Connect 4, Ludo and beyond. I am an 80s baby and we know the true meaning of board games!

It’s hard to picture children cherishing board games the way my generation did. However that shouldn’t put you off. Dust off the board games in the attic and create a bit of friendly competitive spirit amongst the family.
Of course if you don’t own any board games and you want to try this you have options:
Ask friends and family if you can borrow their games
Check out carboots/flea markets/eBay/Gumtree for a bargain or three
Purchase new versions of the classics (more money so make sure your family are actually going to participate).

Get some snacks (food you can eat with your fingers and not need to sit down as a table work best) and some fizzy beverages (or still if that’s more suitable) and turn off your phones. Reconnect with your own childhood and share the magic of pre-technology life.

My top recommended games for children under 9:
Operation
Pop up pirate
Connect 4
Mouse Trap
Buckaroo

Older children may enjoy:
Cluedo
Monopoly
Game of Life
Charades

NOTE: cheaper versions of famous classics can be purchased for nearly half the price of new games in UK stores such as Home Bargains.

Digital Games Night

Now it’s 2017; avoiding technology as a family is impossible. If you have access to a games console the why not organise a family games tournament?

You’ll need some games (ideally ones that get you up and moving about. My personal favourites are the Just Dance games). Draw up a table and get playing.

For this to work you’ll need to ensure you have enough space to move around (so you don’t end up smacking little ones in the face with remotes-it’s painful trust me).

You’ll need your drinks and snacks as before.

If you you a console but not many games eBay have some great second hands going for less than a fiver. Check out Amazons market place too. And don’t forget your own local charity shops.

Family Cooking Night (ideal for Weekends)

No I have not lost the plot. Just hear me out. If you want your children to get into the habit of eating fresh food, be able to cook and prepare it and clean up after themselves who do you expect to actually teach your offspring these KEY SKILLS?
Exactly. No one else will do it for you so if your children are old enough get them into the kitchen to help.

Here are some of the task younger children can help with:

Planning the meal
Cutting up spring onions/bacon/lettuce using safety scissors
Whisking (cream/eggs etc)
Setting tables
Making salads & dressings (screw top lidded bottle or jar would be useful).
Wiping down surfaces
Clearing away tables

If you are keen to encourage cooking habits maybe you can invite family over to join you (how about treating Gran?).

Pick a menu that is easy to prepare and cook. Save five star mitchelin meals for when you are trying to impress the in-laws. Don’t expect perfection from day one. This is about the time you spend together just as much as developing your children’s skills. Enjoy the time together. Children grow so fast (kinda like mint….).

Indoor Camping Adventure (ideal for weekends)

So if you have adventurous souls in your family but they don’t like the idea of creepy crawlies in their sleeping bag this idea is for you.
Create an indoor camping adventure.
You’ll need duvets, blankets, sleeping bags, torches, and a CD/Mp3 player/Tablet. If you have fairy lights dig them out and decorate the room with them too. Younger children may wish to bring a ‘guest’ in the form of a teddy bear.

Food wise here are my suggestions:
Hotdogs
Sausage and beans
Jacket potatoes/potato wedges
Chili con carne
Smores
-anything that is connected with the outdoor camping experience

Activities:
This one is all about imagination. So you’ll making up stories, or telling stories you already know. There’s also shadow puppet making, urban legend stories you can look into and even building a tent from bedsheets.
If the night is clear you could even go star spotting.

Why do we need a CD/Mp3 player/tablet?
To create an atmosphere. You can save/download woodland sounds which you can play in the background of your adventure.

So that’s my top 5. There are plenty of ideas out there (check out Pinterest for more inspiration). The most important thing to remember is you are spending time together as a family. It’s about quality of the time spent. It’s about creating memories. You are not in competition with anyone else to give your family the best of you.

So what is your families favourite way of spending the evening TOGETHER?

 

OMG OREO BROWNIES

Alliyah Dawud
October 12, 2017

Easiest Oreo Brownies like ever

Hands up who likes a good brownie. I see some of you are in denial. Well I ain’t going to lie to any of you. I love brownies. Maybe because they are easier to put together than a cake that needs decorating. Or maybe because I can adjust the flavouring ingredients to reflect what I have in my leftover chocolate jar (yup there is such a thing).

I love one bowl recipes because of the lack of post clean up required. If you have baking these for a bake sale you can even use foil disposable trays/containers so you don’t need to worry about losing your favourite platter plate post event.

I’ve used the original flavour of oreos for this recipe. Let me know if you try other varieties and how they work out.

Ingredients:

9 whole oreos (to make the stuffed oreo brownies)
3 oreos chopped up (optional to decorate your brownies)
150 Grams butter/other solid fat suitable for baking (I personally use Stork or store brand) Softened/melted. You can use the microwave to blast it.
225 Grams Castor Sugar
65 Grams Cocoa powder
Pinch of salt
1 tsp vanilla flavouring or extract
2 eggs (large)
60 Grams plain flour

1) Preheat your oven to 325 F (160C). Line a 19 by 19 cm square pan (the easiest way to line one I found was to basically take a roll of foil and place it in the pan and leave excess foil on both ends so there’s overhang. Then repeat the process to cover the other two ends. Again leave excess to create overhang. It will look a bit like a cross. Yes there won’t be foil lining right up in the corners however that’s fine. You won’t be removing the brownie until it’s cooled so it’s fine. Don’t worry!

2) In a large bowl beat together the margarine, sugar, pinch or salt and cocoa powder. As you beat it (anyone else hear MJJ song right now?!) you’ll notice it looks grainy and well not very brownie like. Don’t worry. It’s normal.

3) Add the eggs and beat further.

4) Now add the flour and vanilla. Beat to encorporate the ingredients in.

5) Now take half the mixture and pour it into the pre-prepared pan. Now add the oreos. Cover with the remaining brownie mixture and smooth over with a bread knife/palette knife or other suitable kitchen utensil.

OPTIONAL: You can scatter the crushed/chopped oreos on top if you are using them.

6) Place the brownie on the middle rack of your oven. Bake for 30 minutes (please note: I like my brownies sticky but not gooey. So 30 minutes does that. If you prefer gooey ones take the brownies out earlier around 25 minutes).

7) Once the brownie is baked take it out of the oven and allow to cool completely before removing from the pan.

If you’ve lined the pan as I do (using two pieces of foil) you’ll need to gently lift out the brownie using the handles.

8) Remove from the pan and slice into 9 pieces.

Voila. Job done.

If the calorie count isn’t enough for you you could warm the brownies and serve with a scoop of vanilla ice cream and drizzle with chocolate sauce.

Enjoy!

NOTES:

You can easily double this recipe.

These brownies freeze well for for 8 weeks. Wrap individually in greaseproof paper, and then wrap in foil and place in a zip lock style bag or airtight food box.

Saal Photo Book review

Stylemesisteradmin
April 15, 2017

Admit it; like me you have hundreds of photos squirreled away on your PC/Laptop/Mobile/Cloud storage waiting to be used in photo projects you are putting off. You keep thinking about them and pushing them to the back of your mind. You then click on a folder and want to do something with the photos but the sheer number of photos overwhelms you and you put it off further.

That’s pretty much been me over the last 2 years or so. See whilst I was recovering from my premature Heart Attack I tried to ‘act normal’ by continuing with all the stuff I did before. You know. Living life. Working. Running a home and to be honest organising photos and memories seemed at the bottom of my priority list.

Fast forward to May 2016 and my then nearly three year old demanded an EPIC party. You see her previous two parties had been low key (her first was a day trip to Gulliver’s World, Warrington, the second was a simple cake affair at home). However she’s getting old and KNOWS what she wants. And what did she want? A Rapunzel party. Yes my youngest is in love with the film Tangled (which is a good job really as Eugene is my ideal man).

Well it took weeks to put things together. From making the cake stands from thrift store plates and wine glasses to creating a hand printed brick fabric backdrop for the photo booth….it took a lot of blood sweat and tears (ALL MINE).

Once the party was over (and believe me everyone loved every single second!) I was left with a sense of disappointment. My little one was no longer a toddler. And her epic party was over. Yes she loved every second but I wanted her to have a keepsake.

Lucky for me I knew what I wanted-a Photobook. You see the quality ones are simply stunning. And the thick paper ones will outlive me (well I hope they do….). And my little ones will always have those memories to cherish.

I’ve previously used Smiley Hippo Photobooks and Albelli Photo Books both of which have downloadable free program so you can work at your own pace. However I came across the offer of a free Photbook via Saal Designs. A European company that have thousands of happy customers. As all they wanted in return was an honest review I jumped at the chance of getting back into preserving my families memories.

So I downloaded Saal Design Software to my laptop and within minutes I was ready to literally go.

As soon as you open the software you are greeted with a simple menu that allows you to select the project you wish to design. The main ones that stuck out for me were the Photobooks, Wall Decor and Posters. You also have the options of simple Photo printing and even business material design. So in essence you could kill a ‘few birds’ you’ve been putting off using this software.

I selected Photobook and was greeted with a further menu which allowed me to select which Photobook I wanted. You can select from a range including: Photobook XT (extra thick), Softcover and Photo booklet (which is spiral bound and looks perfect to use as a portfolio for a start up business). I selected the option of Photobook which took me to a further menu (again simple enough to navigate).

Now this screen/menu in my opinion is the most important as you are going to select the style of Photobook you wish to order. You can select from: A5 portrait, A4 landscape, A3 landscape (which I’ve noted down for when I do get round to satisfying my Wonderlusting) and so many more. There’s an option to suit all your photography needs.

So I selected the A4 Landscape (28CM by 19CM) design. I made the following selections:

Cover: glossy

Cover padding: unpadded

Spreads: glossy

Barcode: standard (you can opt for the option to remove the barcode for an additional £5.00).

I opted for 30 pages.

This came up to £39.45. Saal offered me a voucher of £40.00 towards the book. So I opted to get the most out of the voucher and pay for the postage myself (under a fiver and the photobook arrived within 5 working days!).

The design process:

I’m a huge fans of templates simply because I want something quick and effective (it must look good). So I was relived to see there was an option to select a pre-designed template. If you are more of a design freak and need freedom you can opt to go template free and do as you wish.

When it came to the actual ‘designs’ of the templates I was let down. There was as much variety as I would have liked. As my daughter was turned three the baby pink designs didn’t appeal and nothing else really suited. So I selected the ‘all rounder’ option and went for the block design.

The actual ‘putting together’ of the Photobook was simple and easy enough for anyone to go through. As I was using Software I was able to select the photos direct from my laptops memory which cut out the step of having to upload images to a website (if you decided to use a website to directly design your Photobook you are more than likely going to have to upload your images to their server which *yawn* is another step to the process).

NOTE: as soon as I started the project I saved it and continued to save it every couple of pages.

You can change how many images you have on the page via a simple click. That’s how easy this software is to use.

All you do is select your image and drag and drop. You can crop and change the images with not much effort. As I had all the photos I needed saved in one folder it took me less than 90 minutes to get my Photobook designed and ordered.

And before you submit your order the clever software let’s you know if you have missed any photos or have left any text boxes empty. You even get warnings if any photos are seen as not good enough in quality. You are greeted with a screen that shows you delivery times (estimates) for your order depending on where you live. Postage for the Photobook was £4.95. As I received the order in less than 5 working days I think the turnaround time and postage costs is great value for money.

So I ordered the Photobook not sure what to expect in terms of actual quality. I shouldn’t have given it a second thought as the Photobook arrived very well packaged and in record time.

As soon as I opened it up I was in awe. There was my three year old all glossy gracing the cover of the book. And the quality of the pages? Well all I can say it I was not expecting this level of quality and thickness. When I say these books will outlive me I really mean it! The glossiness is simply stunning. The Photobook impresses everyone who has looked at it. Of course you get the odd comment of ‘your photography is great that’s why it looks good’ however if the quality of the book was low my photography would make no difference. The quality in my opinion is fit for those celebrations you want the best for. I’m talking Weddings, Christenings. Aqueeqahs, Graduations, THAT family holiday you won’t repeat…those golden moments you wish to treasure for life.

Take a look at the photos and see what you think.


My advice to anyone hoarding photos is to download the software and start your projects. As you can save them work on them periodically rather than in long sessions. That way you can work on a few separate projects and know you are making progress. As the Photobooks are saved you could always order additional ones for Grandparents or other family members too (we all know the stress of purchasing presents). Get those projects going. Make 2017 a year you display those memories. I can recommend Saal for the simplicity of their software and the sheer memorizing quality of the Photobook. I’d be impressed if someone purchased me a book from these guys.

*As mentioned I was offered a £40.00 voucher to cover the cost of a book (which it did!) I simply paid the postage cost. The opinions given are my own. If you wish to have a product reviewed you can contact me via the contact form on Style Me Sister.

PS: for the curious reader it’s the Birthday reliving her magical day in the photos. Look out for a free ‘how to guide’ on planning the best DIY Rapunzel party for your little Princess.

 

Slutty Skillet Cookie

Stylemesisteradmin
March 17, 2016

I’ll be honest with you; the name does this cookie no justice. However it’s named after the infamous Slutty Brownie. So you have your basic cookie recipe. What makes the cookie ‘slutty’ is what you add to the cookie. You need 100 grams of chocolate. You can choose any chocolates you may have lurking in your treats cabinet. Or perhaps you have some fun size bars you want to use up. I would say it’s a great way to use up leftover chocolate. But who would I be kidding by saying LEFTOVER chocolate? Is there such a thing?

Anyway I had various fun size chocolates (store own brand). I used peanut and caramel bars (snickers will do), sweet coconut bars (Bounty) and some soft nougat bars (Milky way type) and a few M&Ms (chocolate ones). You can use whatever suits you.

This recipe is suitable for introducing young people into the kitchen as apart from the chopping up the recipe is pretty much child friendly and simple too.

For the basic skillet cookie (made in a 20CM skillet) you will need:

90 grams butter/margarine

80 grams soft brown sugar

80 grams castor sugar

1 large egg

1 tsp vanilla (I used flavouring)

150 grams plain flour

1/2 tsp salt

And of course 100 grams chopped up chocolate bars

Preheat the oven to 170 C/350F.

Grease the Skillet pan. I used 1 cal coconut spray oil. You can use what it suitable for your needs.

In a mixing bowl beat together the sugars and butter. Once it’s smooth add the egg and mix well. Add the vanilla.

Add the flour and salt. Beat to incorporate the ingredients. You now have your basic cookie.

Now you can either fold in the chocolate or let little ones decorate the cookie with them. If you want the little ones to decorate the cookie (and this is fun-see photos) tip the cookie dough into the pan and evenly distribute it in the pan. Then let the kids go crazy with the chocolate.

If you fold the chocolate in stir it well to evenly spread the chocolate into the mixture. Then tip it into the pan and evenly distribute it in the pan.

Place the pan in the middle of the oven and bake for 15 minutes (or 20 minutes depending on how well you like your cookie done). Remove from the oven and allow to cool slightly before serving.

I served the cookie with vanilla ice cream and chocolate sauce.

NOTE: this recipe produces a semi-crumbly soft cookie. It’s more of a dessert like cookie than a chewy cookie.